Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Hi all. I would like to start my blog with a topic named Mind Game. We are all human beings. We have our emotions, we have our feelings, we love, we hate, and we do lots of things. These are normal human tendencies.
Well we tend to trust people because we find similar characteristics in them what we have. Our frequencies go hand in hand. We believe in each other and we call them friends.
When don't have to go and find friends. Friendship just happens. And then as the time goes, we tend to expect things from that person. This is very natural. We call them as our 'best friend'. We believe that our best friend understands us than anybody else in this world. That where we become happy. Genuinely. We trust them blindly.
Trust, faith begin to hold meaning in our life. We begin to have faith in a person whom we consider a part of us. When we have a best friend, we, unknowingly, tend to put a sweet responsibility of our trust and faith on their shoulder without even thinking 'what if they break our trust?’ No. This question do not hold any importance to us when we tend to deeply attach our self to that person.
But this is just one side of the coin. We have the other side. The above thoughts are limited to ur thinking. This is what cooking in our mind. What about the other person? does he thinks the same? Nobody knows.
The easiest way to know this is to ask that person. Isn't it? If u ask this question, this answer is obviously a 'yes' from other side. All right. There we go. Our friendship is secured now. We have a friend whom we can trust blindly and we can say that there is somebody in this world who will cry when I die.
Here is one question. What if that friend has never considered you as a best buddy? What if that person has an ability to befriend with everybody who comes in his way? And you consider him as best friend and dedicate yourself to him? What if that person breaks the bond just for one small misunderstanding and you remain shattered thinking what the hell is happening?
The bond which is emotional for one person is just another friend for the other person. Is this fair? No, it’s not fair. Relationship cannot end just like that. You do not understand what went wrong!!! You are freaked out. Your head is exploding with thoughts. ‘Was the reason so big??’, ‘Did I do anything wrong?’ ’It’s not my mistake. It’s the mistake of that person. Then why he decided to break the friendship without even a second thought???’. You can’t sleep. Thoughts keep on coming in your mind. Head starts paining. You shout on your mom for small small reason. You are not in your control. ‘What the hell went wrong??’,
There has to be a solution. What to do? Keep aside your ego. Go to that person and clear out things. If possible beg to that person to not to end the relationship. Reason being we cannot live with this thought in our head. You said sorry. Just to keep your relation. And that wonderful friend with you.
Again. It seems things are in place. You have your best friend with you. You are very happy. Enjoying and taking every precaution that you do not lose that person.
Then you begin thinking what he told you when he had that thought

Sunday, May 15, 2011

Saturday, May 14, 2011

feelings are strange creatures. some ppl like to take care of it and some ppl like to play with it

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Thursday, February 10, 2011

Living my college days

It was fun week.. Organized CS tournament for students.. had lots of fun.. i will never forget these days..best profession for lifetime.. Once in a lifetime you have to try this profession.. Its awsooomeeeeee...

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Missing fun of college reunion

Today it was reunion of my 12th higher secondary pals..
and i am at home.. siting here to write this blog. :-(
I m definitely missing the fun.. and most importantly the moment of being with evrybdy and refreshing the old memories .. :-(
Anyways.. Vo kehte hai na  "Jo hota hai acche ke liye hota hai".. Expecting something better today.. :-)
I will be going to friends engagement in evning.. understood no ;-)he he..
Later..